Not everyone wants to swoop in a room, charm everyone with effortless jokes, make friends, and leave the entire crowd in awe.
Not everyone wants to hit the movie theatres and pubs every weekend.
And certainly, not everyone wants to “chill” with friends all the time.
Not everyone wants to hit the movie theatres and pubs every weekend.
And certainly, not everyone wants to “chill” with friends all the time.
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| Want to Be Alone All The Time |
As discreetly as this idea has been kept from the mainstream conversation, being a loner isn’t something to be ashamed of.
Sadly, even till this day, societal norms tag the willingness of individuals to stay/live alone with concerns about mental disorders.
If you’re a misanthrope, there’s something wrong with you. If you don’t easily mingle with other people, you’re rude. If you don’t like doing what you are “supposed” to do, you’re a butt of many jokes.
It’s difficult to choose peaceful loneliness as an ideal lifestyle for yourself. You’ve got to blend in the society. You’ve got to meet new people. You’ve got to find a partner.
And dare you to break the ‘ordinary of life’ to choose a different lifestyle for yourself – because that’s not what the society will accept. If you’ve got to live in it, you’ve got to be a part of the herd.
Feeling mutual?
To what people may have told you – and even ridicule you – remember, IT IS OKAY that you’re choosing to live alone. Happy. At peace.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You don’t need the approval of other people and the society at large to live a lifestyle that brings you contentment.
You don’t need to follow the rules that are made by people who were no better than you.
Don’t like crowd – stay alone. Don’t want to hang-out with another bunch – hang out alone. Want to watch a movie – watch it alone. Want to travel – travel alone.
Don’t shape who you are and what you like to the expectations of others. How you choose to live your life is your decision—DON’T let others put you down and make you feel bad for that decision.
Why can’t I fit in socially? Just for the similar reasons why some people can fit in socially.
Does anyone want to be alone? Many, many, many people.
Is it normal want to be alone? Yes. Absolutely.
Is it bad to want to be alone? Is it bad to want to be with someone?
Is it okay to want to be alone all the time? Yes.
Why I want to be alone always? Maybe because you don’t want to be with other people!
What to do when you want to be alone all the time? You be alone all the time. Simple.
Stay by yourself. Read. Walk. Run. Workout. Write. Watch Clouds. Think. Dream. Wish. Lose yourself in songs. Live movies. Smile. Work. Being alone is a complete bliss with less drama, complications and unnecessary obligations.
For many, it may sound “no fun”. But for you – me – for us, it makes a happy, content and rewarding life.
Sadly, even till this day, societal norms tag the willingness of individuals to stay/live alone with concerns about mental disorders.
If you’re a misanthrope, there’s something wrong with you. If you don’t easily mingle with other people, you’re rude. If you don’t like doing what you are “supposed” to do, you’re a butt of many jokes.
It’s difficult to choose peaceful loneliness as an ideal lifestyle for yourself. You’ve got to blend in the society. You’ve got to meet new people. You’ve got to find a partner.
And dare you to break the ‘ordinary of life’ to choose a different lifestyle for yourself – because that’s not what the society will accept. If you’ve got to live in it, you’ve got to be a part of the herd.
Feeling mutual?
I Can't Fit In Anywhere
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| I Can't Fit in Anywhere - IT IS OKAY! |
If you’re a loner, who finds it hard to fit in a crowd—remember that IT IS OKAY!
To what people may have told you – and even ridicule you – remember, IT IS OKAY that you’re choosing to live alone. Happy. At peace.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You don’t need the approval of other people and the society at large to live a lifestyle that brings you contentment.
You don’t need to follow the rules that are made by people who were no better than you.
Don’t like crowd – stay alone. Don’t want to hang-out with another bunch – hang out alone. Want to watch a movie – watch it alone. Want to travel – travel alone.
Don’t shape who you are and what you like to the expectations of others. How you choose to live your life is your decision—DON’T let others put you down and make you feel bad for that decision.
Quick Answers
What to do if you can’t fit in? Stop trying to fit in.Why can’t I fit in socially? Just for the similar reasons why some people can fit in socially.
Does anyone want to be alone? Many, many, many people.
Is it normal want to be alone? Yes. Absolutely.
Is it bad to want to be alone? Is it bad to want to be with someone?
Is it okay to want to be alone all the time? Yes.
Why I want to be alone always? Maybe because you don’t want to be with other people!
What to do when you want to be alone all the time? You be alone all the time. Simple.
Stay by yourself. Read. Walk. Run. Workout. Write. Watch Clouds. Think. Dream. Wish. Lose yourself in songs. Live movies. Smile. Work. Being alone is a complete bliss with less drama, complications and unnecessary obligations.
For many, it may sound “no fun”. But for you – me – for us, it makes a happy, content and rewarding life.
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| Want to be alone Quotes |
So if you want to be alone all the time, take that as a gift.
To all the crowd-haters, non-outdoorers, ones with more patience – to the rebels, adels and the ones who choose to live outside the society’s basement – to that small group who don’t follow, the people who dare to live different – to you, to me, and to everyone who wants to be alone –– remember that it’s okay that you don’t fit in. As a matter of fact, you don’t need to fit in.
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