Someone said something offending or challenging. Your heart starts pumping faster. You’re all geared up to give it back to that jerk. You answered. You got just as a scathing reply. And in less than a minute, you’re smack dab in the middle of an argument.
And let’s not even get started on social media arguments.
Sometimes these exchange of words seems necessary, other times – even to your knowledge that it’s completely irrelevant – you get into a spat with others.
It’s natural. You’re a human. (You are, right?)
However, what’s not natural is that you let your throbbing emotions get hold of you and cloud your decision-making ability.
And the end result is no one is a winner at the end.
The easiest want to win every argument is not to be a part of one in the first place.
Arguing isn’t communication, it is noise—because neither party will ever be empathetic. Let their angry words be answered only with your smile.
SOLUTION: When you disagree, be polite and say “I don’t agree with that…. I think….” And that’s it. When someone is trying to bully you – unless it’s too over the top and physically hurting – staying calm is the best option for you.
The psychological hack is when someone is angry at you, if you stay calm and smile, it will get them even angrier, and they would be ashamed of it later.
(We’re trying to sound a bit dramatic right here, BTW!)
In the heat, it’s quite common to lose your control and consciously try – not just to win the word battle but – to also personally hurt other person’s feelings.
So what to do to level down your hot-headedness and stay calm in an argument even when you’re being provoked?
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| How to win arguments every time in less than a minute? (Yep, we spelled *argument* wrong in the picture!) |
Even the most patient of us get into arguments. Maybe it’s contradiction of opinion with friends, stranger is trying to Alpha you, or you’re just annoyed with your partner.
And let’s not even get started on social media arguments.
Sometimes these exchange of words seems necessary, other times – even to your knowledge that it’s completely irrelevant – you get into a spat with others.
It’s natural. You’re a human. (You are, right?)
However, what’s not natural is that you let your throbbing emotions get hold of you and cloud your decision-making ability.
Arguments Lead To Anger
Even in civilized debates, participants often get into silly squabbles. This leads to 3 things:- Other person’s response further escalates the argument
- Both sides get angry
- Even with the best of facts and numbers, neither party succeeds in changing others’ views.
And the end result is no one is a winner at the end.
The Easiest Way to Win Argument Every Time…
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| The Easiest Way to Win Argument EVERY TIME |
Arguing isn’t communication, it is noise—because neither party will ever be empathetic. Let their angry words be answered only with your smile.
SOLUTION: When you disagree, be polite and say “I don’t agree with that…. I think….” And that’s it. When someone is trying to bully you – unless it’s too over the top and physically hurting – staying calm is the best option for you.
The psychological hack is when someone is angry at you, if you stay calm and smile, it will get them even angrier, and they would be ashamed of it later.
Remember, he who smiles is always stronger than he who gets angry.
With a smile, compassion, calmness and sweet reply, you…
- Win arguments every time – CHECK
- Win arguments with wife or husband – CHECK
- Win arguments with girlfriend or boyfriend – CHECK
- Win arguments with parents or children – CHECK
- Win arguments without losing friends – CHECK
- Win arguments with everyone – CHECK
(We’re trying to sound a bit dramatic right here, BTW!)
But The Problem Is!!
Staying calm all the time is easier said than done. (You said, you’re a human, didn’t you?)In the heat, it’s quite common to lose your control and consciously try – not just to win the word battle but – to also personally hurt other person’s feelings.
So what to do to level down your hot-headedness and stay calm in an argument even when you’re being provoked?
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| Answer Angry Words with Your Smile- Win Arguments Every Time |
9 PROVEN Tips to Remain Calm In Arguments
- Deep breaths, of course
- Never raise your voice
- Try to understand others’ point of view
- Think of a funny or happy memory
- Check your words, expression, and posture
- Remember, you can be wrong. Also, others too have the rights to have their views
- Don’t repeat or point your views more than once
- Make your exit as soon as possible
- (Try to) SMILE throughout
These are few of the tips to remain calm in a spat. If you’re cool and calm, you will win arguments every time.
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